How Derena Went From Single To Engaged In 3 Months


Hi Divas,

This morning, I got wonderful news: another woman has just gotten engaged thanks to my tools – the sixth one this year alone, and it’s only February!
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Her name is Derena, she lives in the United States, and here is her story in her own words:


1. Hi Derena! Can you share how your life was before finding Sami Wunder?

This time last year I was dating someone who I thought was a great man, someone who I thought felt for me the way I felt for him.  He was telling me he loved me and wanted a future with me.  I was excited for my future, but then…. One day I got the call we all dread.  He called me to tell me he no longer wanted to see me, that he really didn’t love me and it was all a lie.

2. Oh wow, that must have really hurt! Did you have any clue what prompted him to break up with you? 

Of course that hurt very much, but there was something else that he said to me that I just couldn’t understand.  The one thing that cut the deepest.  He told me that I was like “one of the guys”, that I wasn’t what he considered “girlfriend or wife material” Wow, that really hurt.  I thought, “why in the world would he say that?” I had always taken pride in being very feminine.  I wore stylish dresses and clothing, 6 inch heels, have my hair styled and my nails done every month.  What did he mean “one of the guys”?

3. Ouch! I can imagine your confusion. So, how did you find Sami and her group Wunder Divas? 

One day on Facebook, Sami Wunder and Wunder Divas came through my news feed.  I joined the group and started reading post from Sami, as well as other Divas. I purchased her e-book (available in the Diva Dating Toolkit) and read it in a day. Started realizing that it isn’t just the way a woman looks, but a way she is perceived and how she projects herself.

4. What did you learn from Sami’s book? 

I am a very independent woman and I am a very capable woman and I did not have a problem letting people know that, but after reading Sami’s book I realized if I wanted happiness and love that I had always craved and desired I was going to have to change that way of thinking. 

5. How did you implement this learning? 

When I decided I was ready to put myself out there again I returned to the online dating site and made my profile much more feminine, and I no longer contacted anyone first, I just leaned back and let them contact me.

Even though I wanted an exclusive relationship, I was dating 3 men at one time. I wanted to give “rotational dating” a change, like Sami teaches. I liked 2 of them a lot and would have been happy with a relationship with either, but 1 of them wanted me to be the aggressor, wanted me to chase him and make the plans, and, if I had not had the Sami Wunder training, I would have just done that and would still be miserable, but I continued to lean back and the other man started chasing hard.  I had let him know after our 2nd date that I was talking to and seeing other men and was not ready to be exclusive, but he had made up his mind that he wanted me to be his very own. I still was not sure that I wanted to be with just him, but I knew I liked him very much.  I did not let him know any of this though.

6. That sounds about right, many women have had this experience with great men, when using Sami’s tools. How was your relationship with this man from then onwards?

He was spoiling me like crazy, taking me to nice restaurants, sending me flowers, taking me places I had never been.  Calling me just to make sure I was having a good day, he even worried me. He wanted to take care of me and I was leaning back and letting him. This was just in the first month.  By the end of month 2, I had finally agreed to be exclusive with him.  I had fallen for him. He loved me and I loved him.  So 7 weeks after we first met and started dating, he took me to the beach and as we walked at sunset he took me in his arms and told me how he didn’t want to live another day without me and asked me to marry him.

7. Congratulations! What’s next for you, Derena? 

We are getting married in just a few short weeks.  This man is the one I have always wanted.  He takes such good care of me.  He still chases me, and I let him, and on some days he calls just to tell me during the middle of the day that he misses me.

8. Is there any message you would like to send to Sami’s readers? 

Yes! If you are still uncertain as to if Sami’s advice works, believe me, if it works for me it, can work for anyone! 


If you enjoyed Derena’s story and wish to have similar results for yourself, there are so many tools for you to take action NOW. Start with my Diva Dating Toolkit (which includes the ebook Derena used!), then go on to my Attract Your Soulmate advanced audio program (which goes into much more detail on how to make Rotational Dating work for you) – and give yourself the chance to have the relationship of your dreams!




Sami Wunder

Sami Wunder is a certified dating and relationship coach, a blogger and inspirational speaker. She helps women all over the world reconnect with their feminine energy and attract and keep the man of their dreams. Sami has been seen on The Daily Mail, The Elephant Journal, The Natural Health Magazine, and The Huffington Post.

2 thoughts on “How Derena Went From Single To Engaged In 3 Months”

  1. Do you know how many of your clients wait to have sex until engagement/domestic partnership? I want to apply that but want to know if their men complied first.

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